Campus Report

Stanford Marriage Pact · ·

The time has come, Stanford.

We thought we’d share a bit about Stanford’s romantic playing field——just so you know what you’re up against.

Our analysis is built upon anonymized and aggregated data from the Stanford Marriage Pact. It will never be sold or shared for commercial purposes. You can read more about our principles and practices here.

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Topics to avoid

at the dinner table

In other words: sex, religion, and politics. But really——who are we without them?

Take a look below to gather fodder for your next divisive discussion. If you try and bring these up on a first date, let us know how it goes.

Political breakdown over time

We’ve run the Stanford Marriage Pact three times since fall 2020——here’s how the campus political climate has evolved.

Republicans hold traditional values; communists don’t (shocker)

It might not surprise anyone, but now you have the data to support it. Keep that in your back pocket for trivia night.

social nonconformity
traditionalism
Republicann=255
Independentn=1295
Libertariann=110
Democratn=3868
Socialistn=573
Communistn=114

Communists at Stanford are most likely to break the rules

Meanwhile, you’ll find Republicans coloring inside the lines. Here’s what students’ answers from each political group say about their respect for authority:

rebellion
conformity to rules
Communistn=114
Socialistn=573
Libertariann=110
Democratn=3868
Independentn=1295
Republicann=255

Taking things slow, by religion

Here’s how students with different religious identities at Stanford answered the question “How long do you think it’s appropriate to wait before sex?”

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Muslim0.040.120.160.190.140.130.22x̄=4.50n=207
Christian0.020.130.230.230.150.090.15x̄=4.18n=82
Protestant0.050.140.230.180.120.100.18x̄=4.18n=589
Hindu0.050.150.290.230.150.100.03x̄=3.69n=310
Catholic0.060.210.290.220.120.050.06x̄=3.54n=823
Buddhist0.110.180.290.230.130.010.05x̄=3.30n=146
Spiritual0.100.300.340.170.060.030.00x̄=2.88n=795
Agnostic0.120.330.300.180.050.010.00x̄=2.76n=1846
Atheist0.150.320.270.170.070.020.01x̄=2.76n=1037
Jewish0.120.400.330.090.040.020.00x̄=2.60n=311
02

Women vs Men

Ladies and gentlemen——we know you’re curious. We’re here to give you the data on the age-old question: How different are men and women, really?

These analyses focus on respondents that identified as men and women. We support nonbinary students at Stanford absolutely, and due to the limited size of our sample we can’t share their insights without compromising their anonymity and safety. If you have questions about this, or ideas about how we can do this better, send us a note at inclusion@marriagepact.com.

Orientation and gender

About 1 in 4 women at Stanford identifies as non-heterosexual.

Of those, 69% identify as bisexual, 14% identify as homosexual, and 10% identify as pansexual.

About 1 in 6 men at Stanford identifies as non-heterosexual.

Of those, 28% identify as bisexual, 64% identify as homosexual, and 4% identify as pansexual.

Points of disagreement

Presenting the questions the women and men of Stanford were most misaligned on. If you’re in the mood to pick a fight, have fun.

Q: I generally like to take control during sex

13%
26%
26%
24%
8%
2%
1%
women
I'd rather not 🥺
Give me the reins 😈
3%
5%
9%
29%
27%
20%
7%
men

Q: I find politically incorrect humor funny

8%
15%
14%
16%
23%
14%
9%
women
Strongly disagree
Strongly agree
2%
6%
8%
12%
24%
25%
24%
men

Q: Criticism motivates me

4%
11%
20%
15%
30%
14%
6%
women
Strongly disagree
Strongly agree
1%
6%
11%
12%
32%
24%
14%
men

Q: When I'm going to confront someone, I plan out what I'm going to say

2%
4%
6%
5%
26%
32%
25%
women
I wing it
I script it
4%
8%
11%
9%
29%
27%
12%
men
03

You look so major

Major this, major that. Everyone’s favorite uninspired topic for small talk, but an important piece of our identities nontheless.

Easiest majors

No, not that kind of easy. These are the majors at Stanford with the lowest average response to the question “How long do you think it’s appropriate to wait before sex?”

  1. Earth Systems
  2. Product Design
  3. Public Policy
  4. English
  5. Symbolic Systems
  6. Mathematical and Computational Science
  7. Mathematics
  1. History
  2. Biomedical Computation

Smartest majors (self-reported)

These are the majors with the highest average response to the question “Are you smarter than most people at Stanford?”

  1. Mathematics
  2. Physics
  3. Mathematical and Computational Science
  4. Computer Science
  5. Electrical Engineering
  6. Economics
  7. History
  8. Biomedical Computation
  9. Management Science and Engineering
  10. Biology

Machiavellian majors

Majors ranked by their Machiavellian tendencies (revenge, getting ahead, ruthless ambition, etc.) Maybe keep one eye open when you nap in lecture.

  1. Management Science and Engineering
  2. Economics
  3. Science, Technology, and Society
  4. Mathematical and Computational Science
  5. Biomedical Computation
  6. Computer Science
  7. Mathematics
  1. Earth Systems
  2. English
04

Relationship status

All this pressure to find that special someone before graduation, so little time. As we come to the devastating conclusion that a ring by spring may have been an idealistic goal, we’re comforted in the fact that most of us are really (really) single.

Ah, to be unlucky in love. If only there were an algorithm to make this easier...

We asked: “How single are you?”

And you sure told us.

We’re single across the board

Except for socialists and Earth Systems majors, you hotties. Tell us your secrets.

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Democrat0.140.030.030.050.100.240.42x̄=5.35n=3868
Republican0.110.020.020.090.120.270.36x̄=5.35n=255
Independent0.140.030.040.060.120.240.38x̄=5.22n=1295
Communist0.150.040.030.090.110.170.42x̄=5.17n=114
Libertarian0.160.060.050.050.090.220.37x̄=4.98n=110
Socialist0.160.060.050.060.100.200.38x̄=4.97n=573
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Biomedical Computation0.050.000.060.070.170.280.38x̄=5.67n=88
Civil and Environmental Engineering0.080.000.050.060.170.180.47x̄=5.67n=66
International Relations0.100.010.020.070.100.220.49x̄=5.66n=203
Computer Science0.140.020.030.050.080.250.42x̄=5.35n=1262
Human Biology0.120.040.030.070.100.230.41x̄=5.33n=413
Economics0.160.030.010.070.110.260.36x̄=5.17n=383
Symbolic Systems0.170.040.020.060.100.260.35x̄=5.05n=419
Electrical Engineering0.200.040.030.040.120.230.35x̄=4.94n=133
Mechanical Engineering0.190.050.030.030.110.200.37x̄=4.93n=187
Earth Systems0.180.050.040.070.110.260.29x̄=4.83n=163
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